Our last vacation was supposed to be "his" vacation that he planned by himself and paid for but of course he moved slow so I did it. My brother has a live-in girlfriend, and he pays all the bills - living expenses, groceries, ultilities, activities, etc. She pays for nothing, and then routinely gets upset when he refuses to buy six $90 tickets to a show she wants to see. But can’t you at least agree that fair is, or should be, fair? I have since realized my errors, and now live according to a budget. Why do people have such a hard time standing up for themselves and their finances? Read More